NSPCC say third of calls about children left home alone made during school holidays

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The NSPCC has revealed concerns over children being left home alone to fend for themselves during school holidays.

They say a third of calls about children left unsupervised come during the summer months.

In 2018/19, the NSPCC made 34 referrals to agencies after members of the public told them they were concerned about a child that was left home alone in Bedfordshire.

After nationally seeing a 21 per cent rise in contacts about the issue last summer, the charity is now urging parents to think carefully before leaving their children unsupervised.

Specialist practitioners on its helpline received 5,737 calls and emails in 2018/19 from across the UK from adults concerned about youngsters being left home alone.

Nearly a third of those calls and emails were between the summer months of July to September when children are away from school for at least six weeks.

While some of the calls were from adults seeking advice on when it is appropriate to leave children unattended, 70% of those contacts were deemed so serious police or social services were notified.

Some callers reported children being left alone overnight, young children left to feed themselves and use dangerous kitchen equipment, or siblings fighting.

One concerned relative told the helpline: “I’m aware in the past my teenage grandson has been left home alone in the daytime and evenings while his mum goes out.

“At the moment, he’s being left home alone every day. He doesn’t have any friends or family in the new town so all he can do is play on his game station all day.

“The last time I saw him he looked really unhappy.”

The law does not give a minimum age at which children can be left on their own. However, parents and carers can be prosecuted for cruelty to a child, if it’s believed they’ve shown neglect, abandonment and failure to protect, or put a child at risk of suffering or injury.

“Summer holidays can be a fun time for children but it is also when they are more likely to be left home alone as parents face increasing childcare pressures,” said Louise Exton, NSPCC helpline manager.

“Childcare is the biggest cost for families after housing, which could explain why we see a spike in calls to our helpline during these months.

“Leaving your child home alone can be a difficult decision as children mature at different ages – there is no ‘one size fits all’ answer.

“Parents are best placed to know what is right for their child so it’s vital there is flexibility for them to decide, but we would urge them to think carefully and use their common sense when deciding if their child could cope.”

The NSPCC has issued guidance to help parents and carers decide when to leave children home alone:

  • Never leave babies, toddlers and very young children alone
  • Children under the age of 12 are rarely mature enough to cope in an emergency and should not be left at home alone for a long period of time
  • Children under the age of 16 should not be left alone overnight
  • Parents and carers can be prosecuted for neglect if it is judged that they placed a child at risk by leaving them at home alone
  • A child should never be left at home alone if they do not feel comfortable with it, regardless of their age
  • If a child has additional needs, these should be considered when leaving them at home alone or with an older sibling
  • When leaving a younger child with an older sibling think about what may happen if they were to have a falling out – would they both be safe?

The NSPCC has also highlighted a recent YouGov survey that found that a fifth of UK parents of 8-13 year olds believed the greatest online risk to their child is not talking to their parents about something which has worried or concerned them online.

They now suggest parents use this time of year to warn children about dangers online, especially if they are going to be left home alone.

Laura Randall, NSPCC associate head of child safety online said: “One of the best ways for parents to keep their children safe is by having regular conversations about what they are doing online – similar to finding out about their day at home or school.

“Parents will be able to spot any problems, and should encourage their child to come to them if they’re worried, as well as make sure their child knows what’s ok to share online – and what’s not.

“Today’s children don’t see the division between online and offline worlds, so it is vital that parents talk to them about the possible dangers they could face online, and how to protect themselves. Just as you would with all the offline places they socialise and play.”

Parents can call a hotline set up by O2 and NSPCC on 0808 800 5002 for free expert advice on setting-up parental controls, adjusting privacy settings or using social networks.